Just use telnet to test an SMTP Mail Server
telnet mail.abcdef.com 25
telnet mail.abcdef.com 25
helo test.mydomain
mail from:me@abcdef.com
rcpt to:me@abcdef.com
data
From: Joker
To: User
Subject: Headline
rcpt to:me@abcdef.com
data
From: Joker
To: User
Subject: Headline